term Soul Mate, is very commonly misunderstood
and misused. A soul mate should come with huge warning labels
on their forehead. A twin flame comes into your life with
a truly clean slate, ready for you and no drama at all.
You will both be single at the time of meeting and ready
to start a life together.
you have met your twin flame there will no drama - none.
If you have met your soul mate, there always will be big
issues to deal with, forever.
term, Soul Mate, is very commonly misunderstood
and misused. This is because the "900 number" commercials
use the term soul mate frequently and incorrectly, confusing
it with the term "Twin Flame". The "900 lines"
would lead you to believe that you have found your one true
other half (Twin Flame) when, in reality, you have found only
ONE of your many SOUL MATES. Sometimes a soul mate is a very
loving partner but in most cases, they should come with huge
warning labels on the forehead:
AROUND, RUN NOW, MEGA LIFE CHANGING DANGER APPROACHING! HEAD
GAMES, LIAR, CHEATER, ADDICT, CRAZY MAKER APPROACHING!
mates come into our lives to teach us lessons. These lesson
givers quite often come into our lives as alcoholics, abusers,
gamblers, addicts, cheaters, once a cheater always a cheater,
have depression issues, had a dysfunctional childhood, a drama
queen or king, sex-addicts, bosses, emotionally unavailable
or your best friend's mate. I know this sounds like half the
population, but beware of the true nature of the soul mate.
There is always an issue to deal with from a past life or
unfinished soul mate business.
Are you about to become caught up in
the constant chaos they can and will bring into your life?
Will your soul-mate become your addiction?
Before you step into this mess that you may wish later you
could just scrape off your shoes, ask yourself, would you
fix this person up with your best friend or even a stranger?
not, why would you date them yourself? There is always a messy
complication but with a huge amount of electricity and chemistry/pull
to keep you in the game.
ATTENTION TO ALL RED FLAGS!
THEY ARE VALID WARNINGS.
our own intuition talking to us. Unfortunately with a soul
mate, often times we choose to ignore all the warning signs.
Often we dont even like this person when we first meet
them, but we allow this lesson into our lives anyway. Yes,
it makes us stronger and hopefully we learn not to repeat
the same relationship mistakes, but the Universe will continue
to bring us these soul mate lessons until we learn.
The truth is, a soul mate will always come into your life
with major KARMA for you to deal with. The good news is you
dont have to play. You can choose to not engage in the
lesson (hopefully, because you've already learned it). If
you choose to stay and play, be sure to hang on (mostly to
your sanity), because this is when the roller coaster ride
starts and all the games begin!
Every relationship is a mirror that helps us to learn more
about ourselves. They are the most challenging and the most
rewarding aspects of life. The more intimate the relationship
the greater the opportunity for growth we are given. If an
issue or person has an emotional charge to it,
then you still have work to do. This mirror is the hardest
to look at because it reflects the issues you have not yet
finished in your life. These are the things that we are the
most blind to. Hence, beware of the soul mate. I know I sound
repetitive but someone has to tell you!
Self-understanding is the entire reason for these mirrors
-- not to fix the other person, but to look at
yourself and learn. The primary reason for most soul mate
relationships is so you can work on your spiritual self and
your karma! So with that said, the more you clear up issues
for yourself and the more YOU ARE the right person;
the sooner you will attract the twin flame you are looking
Soul mates share a common mission and comparable stage of
spiritual development. They come together because they are
working on the same type of karma and the same chakra simultaneously.
Soul mates have an attraction that is based on the sacred
labor and on the path of self-mastery on your personal spiritual
In a soul mate relationship there is always a connection between
you from prior lives. Keep in mind that you can have as many
as 3000 soul mates in one life time. You have not been happily
married to each of them but in some cases you have killed
each other or you may have been each other's parents, siblings
or battling next-door neighbors.
Quite often in readings, I see a similar pattern for many
couples. For example, when a couple is experiencing a horrible
sex life, it is often because they were siblings in a past
life and therefore the intimate relationship in their current
life feels wrong. Another common pattern is marrying someone
who was our parent in a past life, which provides an opportunity
to work out whatever unresolved lessons you might have from
the past. In many cases issues are reversed from lifetime
to lifetime so that we might learn how the other person felt.
Whenever you consider breaking up with a soul mate, it seems
A GIANT MAGNET appears in the sky making you both run into
each other in the strangest of places. Soul mates can feel
you come in the door when you come home or know when you're
in a crowded place. A soul mate can project his/her thoughts
onto you so it becomes unclear if you are thinking of them
or they are projecting their thoughts on you so that you cant
tell if they are thinking of you, or you are missing them.
It takes a lot to break free from a soul mate, often times
you'll break up 6 to 20 times.
A word of warning if you choose to marry one of your soul
mates: Do NOT COMPLAIN constantly to your friends and family
about your relationship. They won't understand that you've
chosen each other as a contract of lessons and you'll only
make the other people in your life despise your spouse.
flames are ourselves in another body. When we have reached
the stage where we are capable of giving unconditional love,
we then have the opportunity to reconnect with our other
half or twin flame. The chances are that we meet our
twin flame briefly in many lifetimes, but one or both of us
are not ready for the intensity of this connection. When both
halves of the whole are ready to come back together and meet
they will discover that in their lifetime they have lead almost
The events of their lives will mirror each other almost exactly.
They may have come from very similar families and family dynamics.
They may have had similar schooling or lack thereof. They
may have crossed paths socially or lived close by to each
other and never known it. They may have almost identical careers.
They may even have previous marriages and divorces within
weeks of each other. When twin flames get to know each other,
they will feel as if the other is reading their life script.
That isn't to say they are identical people, but they are
perfectly complimentary to each other.
When twin flames meet for the first time in a physical life,
they recognize themselves in the other person. This will come
as a deep surprise to both, but the recognition is immediate.
At the same time you will feel that you have always known
this person who is sitting in front of you. It is a feeling
of homecoming, because you recognize your other self and feel
very much that you have come home when you are with your spiritual
twin flame counterpart. Be aware that soul mates also have
a strong recognition pattern, only there will be that little
voice in your head that knows the difference.
When twin flames come together they become one, they are not
like each other but they are the mirror image of the other.
They think alike, they hold the same values and often their
life experiences are very similar. Twin flames do not teach
each other, they learn together and help each other learn
the lessons that have been set before them in this lifetime.
When twin flames come together they join forces and are capable
of overcoming obstacles the average mortal could not begin
to face. They are so filled with unconditional love they literally
glow with it and have much to share with others. They are
the inspiration that poets write about and singers sing about.
Once in awhile, yes I have seen twin flames come together
and not make it work, this is only because you have chosen
different life lessons this time around and you do not fit
as lovers, but you will always be best friends.
Fortunately, you also have me to help you determine the difference.
When you are ready to break your unhealthy patterns of attracting
unhealthy soul mates, I have many tools to help you set you
free. I can help you attract your twin flame or at the very
least, someone you have no karma with so that you can go into
a relationship with a clean slate.
can be a happy medium in love
one is perfect and not one person can make us totally happy,
we need to make ourselves happy first. Love needs to be a
bonus, a plus not a negative.
The first year of any relationship you are building the foundation,
see your buddies and keep your hobbies this will build a healthy
long lasting love life together. Eventually the beginning
of love wears off and we all miss our buddies and time alone,
never stop seeing them then later you can avoid the questions,
why now? When you want to start seeing your friends again,
why now, what is wrong with us now?
you ready to jump off that drama trauma train?
always, when you meet someone,
ask them for their birthday and then