term Soul Mate, is very commonly misunderstood
and misused. A soul mate should come with huge warning labels
on their forehead. A twin flame comes into your life with
a truly clean slate, ready for you and no drama at all.
You will both be single at the time of meeting and ready
to start a life together.
you have met your twin flame there will no drama - none.
If you have met your soul mate, there always will be big
issues to deal with, forever.
term, Soul Mate, is very commonly misunderstood
and misused. This is because the "900 number" commercials
use the term soul mate frequently and incorrectly, confusing
it with the term "Twin Flame". The "900 lines"
would lead you to believe that you have found your one true
other half (Twin Flame) when, in reality, you have found only
ONE of your many SOUL MATES. Sometimes a soul mate is a very
loving partner but in most cases, they should come with huge
warning labels on the forehead:
AROUND, RUN NOW, MEGA LIFE CHANGING DANGER APPROACHING!
HEAD GAMES, LIAR, CHEATER, ADDICT, CRAZY MAKER APPROACHING!
mates come into our lives to teach us lessons. These lesson
givers quite often come into our lives as alcoholics, abusers,
gamblers, addicts, cheaters, once a cheater always a cheater,
have depression issues, had a dysfunctional childhood, a drama
queen or king, sex-addicts, bosses, emotionally unavailable
or your best friend's mate. I know this sounds like half the
population, but beware of the true nature of the soul mate.
There is always an issue to deal with from a past life or
unfinished soul mate business.
Are you about to become caught up in
the constant chaos they can and will bring into your life?
Will your soul-mate become your addiction? Before you step
into this mess that you may wish later you could just scrape
off your shoes, ask yourself, would you fix this person up
with your best friend or even a stranger?
not, why would you date them yourself? There is always a messy
complication but with a huge amount of electricity and chemistry/pull
to keep you in the game.
ATTENTION TO ALL RED FLAGS!
THEY ARE VALID WARNINGS.
our own intuition talking to us. Unfortunately with a soul
mate, often times we choose to ignore all the warning signs.
Often we dont even like this person when we first meet
them, but we allow this lesson into our lives anyway. Yes,
it makes us stronger and hopefully we learn not to repeat
the same relationship mistakes, but the Universe will continue
to bring us these soul mate lessons until we learn.
truth is, a soul mate will always come into your life with
major KARMA for you to deal with. The good news is you dont
have to play. You can choose to not engage in the lesson (hopefully,
because you've already learned it). If you choose to stay
and play, be sure to hang on (mostly to your sanity), because
this is when the roller coaster ride starts and all the games
relationship is a mirror that helps us to learn more about
ourselves. They are the most challenging and the most rewarding
aspects of life. The more intimate the relationship the greater
the opportunity for growth we are given. If an issue or person
has an emotional charge to it, then you still
have work to do. This mirror is the hardest to look at because
it reflects the issues you have not yet finished in your life.
These are the things that we are the most blind to. Hence,
beware of the soul mate. I know I sound repetitive but someone
has to tell you!
is the entire reason for these mirrors -- not to fix
the other person, but to look at yourself and learn. The primary
reason for most soul mate relationships is so you can work
on your spiritual self and your karma! So with that said,
the more you clear up issues for yourself and the more YOU
ARE the right person; the sooner you will attract
the twin flame you are looking for.
mates share a common mission and comparable stage of spiritual
development. They come together because they are working on
the same type of karma and the same chakra simultaneously.
Soul mates have an attraction that is based on the sacred
labor and on the path of self-mastery on your personal spiritual
a soul mate relationship there is always a connection between
you from prior lives. Keep in mind that you can have as many
as 3000 soul mates in one life time. You have not been happily
married to each of them but in some cases you have killed
each other or you may have been each other's parents, siblings
or battling next-door neighbors.
often in readings, I see a similar pattern for many couples.
For example, when a couple is experiencing a horrible sex
life, it is often because they were siblings in a past life
and therefore the intimate relationship in their current life
feels wrong. Another common pattern is marrying someone who
was our parent in a past life, which provides an opportunity
to work out whatever unresolved lessons you might have from
the past. In many cases issues are reversed from lifetime
to lifetime so that we might learn how the other person felt.
you consider breaking up with a soul mate, it seems A GIANT
MAGNET appears in the sky making you both run into each other
in the strangest of places. Soul mates can feel you come in
the door when you come home or know when you're in a crowded
place. A soul mate can project his/her thoughts onto you so
it becomes unclear if you are thinking of them or they are
projecting their thoughts on you so that you cant tell
if they are thinking of you, or you are missing them. It takes
a lot to break free from a soul mate, often times you'll break
up 6 to 20 times.
word of warning if you choose to marry one of your soul mates:
Do NOT COMPLAIN constantly to your friends and family about
your relationship. They won't understand that you've chosen
each other as a contract of lessons and you'll only make the
other people in your life despise your spouse.
flames are ourselves in another body. When we have reached
the stage where we are capable of giving unconditional love,
we then have the opportunity to reconnect with our other
half or twin flame. The chances are that we meet our
twin flame briefly in many lifetimes, but one or both of us
are not ready for the intensity of this connection. When both
halves of the whole are ready to come back together and meet
they will discover that in their lifetime they have lead almost
events of their lives will mirror each other almost exactly.
They may have come from very similar families and family dynamics.
They may have had similar schooling or lack thereof. They
may have crossed paths socially or lived close by to each
other and never known it. They may have almost identical careers.
They may even have previous marriages and divorces within
weeks of each other. When twin flames get to know each other,
they will feel as if the other is reading their life script.
That isn't to say they are identical people, but they are
perfectly complimentary to each other.
twin flames meet for the first time in a physical life, they
recognize themselves in the other person. This will come as
a deep surprise to both, but the recognition is immediate.
At the same time you will feel that you have always known
this person who is sitting in front of you. It is a feeling
of homecoming, because you recognize your other self and feel
very much that you have come home when you are with your spiritual
twin flame counterpart. Be aware that soul mates also have
a strong recognition pattern, only there will be that little
voice in your head that knows the difference.
twin flames come together they become one, they are not like
each other but they are the mirror image of the other. They
think alike, they hold the same values and often their life
experiences are very similar. Twin flames do not teach each
other, they learn together and help each other learn the lessons
that have been set before them in this lifetime. When twin
flames come together they join forces and are capable of overcoming
obstacles the average mortal could not begin to face. They
are so filled with unconditional love they literally glow
with it and have much to share with others. They are the inspiration
that poets write about and singers sing about.
in awhile, yes I have seen twin flames come together and not
make it work, this is only because you have chosen different
life lessons this time around and you do not fit as lovers,
but you will always be best friends.
you also have me to help you determine the difference. When
you are ready to break your unhealthy patterns of attracting
unhealthy soul mates, I have many tools to help you set you
free. I can help you attract your twin flame or at the very
least, someone you have no karma with so that you can go into
a relationship with a clean slate.
can be a happy medium in love.
one is perfect and not one person can make us totally happy,
we need to make ourselves happy first. Love needs to be a
bonus, an additional bonus to everyday life
and never a negative.
first year of any relationship you are building the foundation,
see your buddies and keep your hobbies this will build a healthy
long lasting love life together. Eventually the beginning
of love wears off and we all miss our buddies and time alone,
never stop seeing them then later you can avoid the questions,
why now? When you want to start seeing your friends again,
why now, what is wrong with us now?
you ready to jump off that drama trauma train?
always, when you meet someone,
ask them for their birthday and then
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