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MAY
2007
Happy Mother's Day!
The
word Mom/Mother has so many meanings to all of us...so much
power behind the word Mom..it can mean unconditional love
and sometimes it can mean many lessons for us to learn.
However, it is time to honor the woman or women who chose
to allow us into her personal body space and then into her
physical and emotional realm of love and support. Not to forget
to honor any woman/mother who chose to adopt a child and the
many pseudo Moms who take us into their lives and becomes
like a Mom to us.
This is a very happy and yet sad time of the year, happy for
those of us who still have our Mom in our day to day lives,
by phone, email or in person - yet very sad for those of us
who have lost our Mom at some point in this lifetime.
What is a good loving Mom? She is more than a woman that births
a child, she is a support system, she is there to love us,
not to judge us, to laugh with us, to listen, to let us make
our mistakes and to be there to cry with when we make them,
to be our warrior and our safe place in this world that can
be such a harsh place to be, many times she is our best friend,
this woman does not sleep at night when her children are troubled,
she is there for her loved ones at all times, a Mom, especially
a really great Mom is a wonderful gift to be blessed with.
She is still just a woman. She is usually the first number
on your speed dial. She is your rock. Who is her rock? We
do not always see that they need to unload their problems
or thoughts, do you listen? Do you pay attention? Do you really
know your Mom as a woman? Not just your Mom? Is it time to
get to know her better?
A Mom is a spiritual vessel to help us move us along on our
path, that we chose to live in this lifetime, if we are lucky
we did not choose to come and learn tough emotional lessons
with our Mom, however if we did and she is not a loving Mom,
we need to remember we chose this path - we can still honor
her - for allowing us to come into this lifetime, to learn,
to live, to walk on our path, to see the value of life and
each breath we take every day.
Quite often we are lucky enough to find pseudo Mom's or Grandmas'
that come into our lives, I personally have 3 pseudo Mothers,
I lost my Mom at way too early of an age, but have found 3
woman that have become like second Moms to me, they are always
there for me when I need a Mom, to chat with, laugh with,
cry with, to yell at me and put me straight (yea even me has
to get straightened out at times) these 3 women know who they
are -- Happy Moms day to you! Thank you for being there for
me.
Mom - she is your physical foundation -- from the day we enter
this world -- even though the umbilical chord is cut, we will
always stay energetically connected to our Mom through that
physical chord. She is your foundation - just like the cement
part of any building - if that cracks or crumbles or disintegrates
- the building falls down - when our Mom dies our building
falls down - we have to totally rebuild our lives.
After the grief, we become so powerful and want to own our
strengths, sometimes for the first time in our lives - this
is our Mom passing down her power to us - her children - when
a Mom passes - she doesn't leave us - she sends us another
gift - her strength to make changes in our day to day lives
- quite often after a Mom passes away we make major changes
in our lives - because we have lost our foundation - it is
like our footing is just gone - take this time to move slow
- to think - do not make rash changes - but yes make improvements
- we do get strong - but we always miss them.
Yet what is a Mom? She is just a human being, with lessons
to learn, with faults and a karmic path of her own to walk,
we put moms on a pedestal, no one belongs there, we will all
fall down eventually - because we are human - we make mistakes
- we live our lives.
A Mom will and has made mistakes, many Mom's have children
in their twenties - they are children raising children - so
take a look and see the human side of your Mom and learn to
let go of anger and let the love or forgiveness live in your
heart, don't waste all that time being angry at things that
happened years ago, anger turned inside and carried everyday
makes us ill - let go - move on.
What is the point to this short newsletter on Moms? To wish
you all a Happy Mothers Day and to point out all the reasons
we have a Mom and why we should honor them - no matter what
- they brought us to where we are today - as an adult you
owe it to yourself to fix any mistakes your Mom may have made
or not made, the way it has personally effected you in your
day to day life - as an adult it is time to work on you -
if you have Mom issues, time to work on them. You owe it to
yourself and your Mom.
If you have questions as to why you chose your specific Mom,
whether is was karmically or emotional lessons you need to
learn ...If your dysfunctional relationships are like your
Moms or her opinions - we can work on this - this is a great
time for a reading/healing. Are you carrying your Moms issues
forward that don't belong with you....time to fix this through
a healing.
Would you like to hear any messages from your passed on mothers
- I am here to do this for you.
I am offering a 15% discount - for Mothers Day gift certificates
to your Mom or to any Mom that you thinks needs guidance.
You can also use this for yourself - this weekend only.
I am around this weekend - whether you have a Mom here to
celebrate with or she is gone...honor her for letting you
breathe.
Sorry for any typos - learning how to type again ...wrist
is way better ! But some things are learn over-able!
Tonya Somers
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